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* Time: In our hectic daily pace, the phrase "I don't have time" becomes a habit. Jesus was often tired and hungry, but He freely gave His time because there were so many who needed Him. We are busy, but if we care, we can find time to make a phone call to a friend or a half-hour visit to someone who lives alone.
* Acceptance: Have you ever tried to change someone you love? That usually doesn't work very well. Think about your loved ones and determine to accept some traits, some attitudes, some imperfections. Loving acceptance takes the pressure off you, and may trigger a surprising change in the other person.
* A good example: We set examples every day of our lives~for our children and others. Christmas is a good time to resolve to set a better example than before.
* Listening: Being a good listener is a much needed trait. Too often we interrupt or act disinterested when others are talking. Jesus had time to listen to everyone. The disci~ples became concerned that people were taking all of His time, but He knew how important it was to listen.
* Seeing the best in people: How often are we critical of our children or our spouse? How often do we give un~wanted advice? How many times do we see the negative rather than the positive? When Jesus saw Peter and Andrew throwing their nets into the sea, He saw in them disciples and~ fishers of men, just as He sees the best in each one of us.
* The gift of fun: Have you known people who were con~stantly down? They go around casting gloom everywhere. Then there are those who find fun in everything they do. Jesus wants us to have joy in our walk with Him. Can we give this gift to others as well?
* Giving up a bad habit: All of us have annoying habits. What a great gift it would be to give up an unhealthy habit. Think of how others will rejoice as we live up to our Christian potential.
* Letting others give: It is blessed to receive, as well as to give. Think of how you like to give. Allow others that privilege, too, when they want to give to you, and receive with appreciation what they give.
* Self-esteem: ~Building confidence is a day-by-day process. Give this price~less gift all year long, to family members but also to others.
* Privacy: Sometimes we bombard our children and spouses with questions the second they enter the door. We demand to know everything before they are ready to share. Give the gift of personal privacy.
Birdie Etchison is a freelance writer from Ocean Park, Wash.
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